Holidays are here

It is hard to believe, but it is that time of the year again…the hustle and bustle of October thru the first of the year.  We all start the celebration of Halloween, Thanksgiving, and Christmas.  We are putting up decorations and then taking them down, replacing them with the next set, we are doing lots of cooking and baking, we are going to lots of parties, and we are doing lots of shopping.  However during this busy time, how much of the actual time do we spend with our families, how much of the time do we spend giving thanks, how much of the time do we stop and smell the turkey, how much of the time do we spend tasting the food we labored over, how much of the time do we actually enjoy during this time?  I think for many of us, we get so caught up in the preparation and anticipation that we forget to take it all in and enjoy it.  We forget that this is the time our families will treasure most. 

Keep in mind, we will forget the decorations, the food, the presents, and the things, but we won’t forget the relationships, the love, the memories, the joy, the togetherness.  Our children won’t remember the presents of the year or the food they ate or the money spent, but they will remember the time you spend with them, the hug you give them, the gift they give to another child whose parents can’t afford one, or the meal they serve to a homeless family.  These are the things remembered during this time of year, these are the things this time of year is supposed to be about.  So let’s try to remember to stop and appreciate those around us, to use this season as a time of giving, whether it be a smile, a word of encouragement, a gift, to use every moment as an opportunity to spread the joy of the season.  Forget about the rest…you might surprise yourself, you may actually find some joy yourself.     

Character Education

As the school year is getting ready to begin, everyone is thinking about getting their school supplies, going school shopping, and finding out their teacher or schedule.  However, I am thinking about how many choices my children and I will make this year and whether they will be good or bad choices.  When you really stop and think about it, we each make hundreds of choices every day.  Some, I know, are more important than others, but nonetheless, they are still choices.  I am trying to impress upon my children how important it is to think about each and every choice they make-how they treat others, how hard they work in class, how they take a test, how they take care of their classroom, how they treat their teachers and principal, how they talk on the bus, how they act out on the baseball field…it could go on and on and on.  But what about me?  As a mom, how am I treating my children or other moms or my child’s teacher that I’m not too happy with, am I helping out the school as much as I can, am I staying involved, am I keeping quiet at the soccer game?  The list could go on and on and on for me, as well.  The kids are watching me and modeling after me.   So let’s start the school year off right.  Let’s use every moment as an opportunity to make positive life changing choices. 

Without love

I just finished reading an article titled, “What Remains The ‘Love Chapter’ for parents,” and it was awesome.  In it, Cindy sigler Dagnan said, “If I have the gift of knowing which child attempted to flush the Hot Wheels down the toilet and which one pushed her sister, and if I have faith that somehow we’ll survive life’s emergencies, but have not love, I am nothing.  If I save all my box tops for school and give outgrown clothing to the local shelter, and if I surrender my body to stretch marks and under-eye circles, but have not love, I gain nothing.”  These are all so true, aren’t they?  We can appreciate these moments, though, really by…1. keeping things in perspective, 2. laughing (a lot),  3. focusing on God’s love and 4. giving back the same type of unconditional love.  

Love is patient when someone spills his/her milk, love is encouraging when your husband has a hard day, love is okay with the fact that your best friend just bought a new house.  Love is not impatient or angry or snapping at your loved ones because something did not go your way.  Cindy Sigler Dagnan puts it best when she wrote, “  Where there are sleepless nights, they shall end.  Where there are diapers, Little League and dioramas built from shoeboxes, they will cease.  Where there is knowledge of babycare trends, discipline strategies and boy-girl problems, it will pass away.  Now these three remain:  faith, lived out in my daily circumstances and instilled in my children; hope, of one day rejoicing with my family in heaven; and love, which covers over a multitude of less-than-perfect moments.  But the greatest of these is love.  It is what remains…long after I am gone.” 

It is truly amazing what God can do once you let go of all the “stuff” that doesn’t mean anything and focus on the “stuff” that means a great deal.  Take every moment and make it the best moment ever, use it to be the best you can be, use it to encourage those around you, and thank God for it because it is a gift.   

How will you be remembered?

Truly amazing and touching…We were watching the Dayton Air Show when one of the planes went down, and the pilot died.  It was a grim reminder of the fragility of every day, but it also reminded me of what is important.  We need to live every day like it is our last and ask ourselves how will I be remembered?  Can you imagine what our world would be like if each one of us lived with this attitude?  Remind yourself that people will not remember what kind of house you lived in, or the car you drove, or the things you accumulated.  People will remember you for your words, your actions, and your character.  People will remember you for your devotion to God, your dedication to your friends and family,  and your commitment to serving others.  How will people remember you? 

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Inspirational Character

Our character – who we are when no one is looking – is what could help or hurt our ability to affect our world.  Consider the impact you can make!  What better way is there than pulling a shirt over your head and wearing it all day long to remind yourself of the things you need to think about, say, do and live out each and every day?

I’VE  GOt  CHARACtER™

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character in sports

I just finished reading an article written by Dan Wetzel posted on Yahoo Sports.  As much as I love sports, it is extremely frustrating and disappointing to me to read about these athletes who are constantly getting in trouble with the law and who are role models to so many of our children.  It is also extremely disturbing to me that it seems to be okay or tolerable?  When are we going to step up as spectators to say that this is unacceptable behavior?  What happened to the concept that one’s character matters?  I think it is time to start a movement that one’s character still matters.  Unfortunately, Dan wetzel is correct when he said, “People cheat in every walk of life…,” but that doesn’t mean that it has to be okay.  Let’s take a stand and start with our own character.  Challenge:  try to use every moment as an opportunity to develop character that counts, that makes a difference.  Remember:  what you do matters, one person can make a difference.

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Character Education Clothing

Our line of I’ve Got Character clothing is perfect for schools, churches, or organizations who encourage and spend time on developing certain character traits.  I’ve Got Character tees allow individuals and groups, children and adults, to advertise and reinforce the traits they are trying to develop and how important having character is.  I’ve Got Character clothing is comfy and simple, yet stylish and meaningful.  I’ve Got Character also offers other character related items and inspirational items such as mugs and jewelry.

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Swarovski Crystal and Bali Silver Jewelry

ivegotcharacter.com offers jewelry that expresses the words we often forget to say.  Send a message of love, hope, or friendship with a piece of jewelry made with Swarovski crystals and bali sterling silver.  They are not only beautiful but also meaningful.  I love mine and also bought one for my sister to remind her of our special relationship.   

Miss Ohio has character

As a mother of four young children, I am proud of Roberta Camp, Miss Ohio, of Grove City.  She runs on the platform of changing the world by building character.  Good for her!  It is awesome to see young people like her standing up for what is right.  Someone positive and morally strong is someone I want my children to look up to.  Building character among all of us is such a crucial issue in today’s society.  It is something I feel very strongly about and want to see more people getting involved in.  That is why my husband and I started our company I’ve Got Character.  We our trying to inspire people all over the nation to inspire others.  In our society, it seems that doing the right thing is just not very popular anymore.  Let’s unite together and pledge to use every moment as an opportunity to do good.  We are proud of you Miss Ohio!  Keep up the good work and God bless!

Weddings with Character

What a monumental decision…getting married.  There are so many things to consider when getting married-the guest list, the dress, the wedding party, the food, the invitations, the music, it could go on and on.  It can get overwhelming, to say the least.  But really, how important are these things?  This is one day versus a marriage being a lot more than that.  Getting married is about every moment after that big day.  It is an opportunity to give or take, listen or demand, love or hate, laugh or argue.  Getting married is an opportunity to put God first, marriage second, and everything else after that.  It is a challenge and a journey each and every day, but I love every minute of it.  I pray for all marriages that they are blessings to us all.